I totally understand your frustration at well-wishers that tell you what's best for you (and how what you're already doing and works for you is actually bad, hahaha)!

I discovered something along my years of overconsuming parenting advice: children are different and what might work with one, will not work with the other, even with the same parents. It's so simple.

So.. do whatever feels right now.

I enjoyed your article, it has more emotion and feels authentic!

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